"I helped him initially with questions, assumptions, and a gentle voice. With surgical movements, as carefully as when you try to touch a half-opened shell that closes as soon as you approach it, I wanted to approach him, to learn his story. I knew that at any moment I could lose him. This is always one of the basics we work on in psychotherapy. To soften our defenses, to understand that bending is not a weakness, but a strength."
Fragments and paths that have met in the therapy room have come together and composed these journeys, with the sole purpose that the reader will meet themselves, their neighbor, their child or parent, the one they chose to walk with, and the one they left behind but carry within them.
Often you will find yourself searching for who is to blame, the critical mother, the distant father, the inconsistent ex, the resigned current partner... Don't do it. We are not looking for a culprit. We want to understand, because understanding is the first step towards redemption.
With the valuable tool of clinical psychology knowledge, but at the same time with simple and accessible language, the stories aim to make a brave dive into the complex and colorful human soul.